Dear Deanna, How Do You Deal With Stalkers?

You know, some stalkers will stalk you because of someone you are associated with. My friend who is also fighting the corruption of family court also has stalkers. So because you work together or are friends, you get stalked by association. I see them as publicity and they help to boost my name and rankings on Google. I love to see their lies and manipulation, but love it more when people tell me how nuts they are. Most people are shocked once they meet me and I am nothing like what the stalkers said. 

My favorite example is when the Mayor threw a going away party for one of my friends who went back to New Zeland. While talking to the Mayor's secretary, she kept saying how fun I was and how I looked so familuar. I mentioned my running for a county commissioner position two years prior, but she did not put two and two together. I am sure the Mayor informed her who I was leter on. 

Others tell me to be safe and that those people are crazy. My friend and I actually feed them information that just makes them go nuts and crazy. We laugh about it and find it interesting how some people can be fed information to use. They have no clue we are setting them up to look crazier than they really are. If haters want to hate, feed them hater information. For example: We will go out to an event and then take some specific photos and place them on a Facebook page etc.. that we know they are on but think we do not. They will take the pictures and then use them. They also like to take our pictures from the Facebook personal pages. 

I always say, "If you can't laugh at the situation, you will never make it through the bs." Our haters help us to laugh at the situation. Sometimes you are just amazed at some people.